What to reply when a recruiter is hard-pitching a job you don't want
Polite no that doesn't burn the bridge for next year. Specific reason beats vague 'i'm happy where i am'. The conversation is in a group thread — this page is tuned to that exact framing. The example replies below cover three angles you can pick from; copy any one into the chat or hit the CTA to keep workshopping with myalexai.
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Confident — professional and composed
thanks for the note. proposing the following adjustment so we hit the date without trade-offs i can't deliver on.
Chill — friendly without folding — alt take
no problem on my end — let me know what works.
Informative — bring the receipts — alt take
summary in three bullets so we don't loop. status, blockers, ask.
Confident — professional and composed — when the first feels too soft
yes, free at 2:30 if that works — happy to grab 15 minutes.
Why this tone fits
Workplace messages are read by more people than the recipient. Confident-professional should be your default — it preserves your authority without being warm-fuzzy. Chill works for low-stakes Slack threads where over-formality reads as anxious. Informative is for written-down conversations where a future-you (or HR) might need to re-read. myalexai's confident preset is calibrated to land as composed and senior, regardless of your actual title.
Pro tip: Always re-read work messages 30 seconds after writing them, especially when you're irritated. myalexai shows you a preview before you copy it; use it.
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